My official resignation

That’s it! I’ve had it! I had to completely strip Cam down and bath him thoroughly twice yesterday. Oh it’s not his fault per se, after all he cannot control the bodily functions which created my dilemma yesterday. The first causation of mandatory bathing was when he woke up yesterday. He has been sleeping through the night (knocking on wood) so neither my wife or I heard any stirrings from him until 6:30 in the morning. When I went in to get him up the poor kid had thrown up at some point during the night and had it all over himself. I don’t know how he slept after that! Talk about making you feel like the worst parent ever! I got him up, stripped him down, and bathed him and we pulled his sheets and mattress pad off and washed them.

Whew major crisis of the day handled (or so I thought) Camden on the other hand had other plans mua-ha-ha-ha (evil laugh). About one o’clock I fixed myself some lunch since he was having fun rolling around the floor and playing (little did I know it was all an evil plot against his daddy). I sat down next to him on the floor and began to eat, I was almost finished when the familiar pungent aroma filled my nostrils and I knew that someone in the room had just made a mess worthy of a Camden mess. Since I deduced that the dog had been next to me begging the entire time and also that I, myself did not make such a mess I concluded that it must be Mr. Poop-miser (insert tune from the popular Christmas special involving Heat-miser and Cold-miser).

The dread began to fill my chest as I gingerly lifted him toward me very much like a chef removing a delicate soufflé from the oven. Now at this point something in Cam’s genetic makeup or possibly some former instructions from the pre-mortal existence kicked in and he began to vehemently resist my near futile attempts to remove the smelly substance from his body. Naturally with his infamous “no-butt” scenario he managed to get it all up his back and in the process of trying to carefully remove the soiled onesie that he had on, he also managed (through hard work and flailing efforts) to get it in his hair as well. After contacting Roto-Rooter and determining that they were ill-equipped for this kind of disaster, I quickly carted him upstairs to the bath again.

Now I should point out at this particular moment that I was not finished eating my lunch yet and since I already had a disaster worthy of a Hazmat team, I was not thinking clearly. I set my unfinished lunch on the arm of the couch and began the trek upstairs. I washed Cam thoroughly, again, found him a new onesie and trudged downstairs to the scene of the crime to re-dress him. The first thing I noticed upon arriving downstairs was that my Shi-Tzu had helped me out (in his own way of course) by cleaning my plate for me. Of course it could also be pointed out that my unfinished lunch used to dwell on said plate. Well I took the loss of my lunch in true sportsmanlike fashion (you know telling him that he would NEVER get another crumb from me, EVER!).

Consequently, the first thought that came to mind after this incident was the absence of gagging and choking on my part as I cleaned up these two minor disasters. I thought instantly of the description given by Jeff Foxworthy in his monologue and my mind rehearsed the words; “…Mothers will clean up stuff that would gag the Roto-Rooter man. Sewage could be spewing out of the toilet and there’s mom in the bathroom with a mop “Singin’ in the rain, just singin’ in the rain””. It was then that I realized that I truly have earned the title of Mr. Mom. So I would like to thank the Academy, my parents and wife but I’m afraid I’m going to have to tender my resignation as the local Haz-Mat removal expert.

Babysitting vs. being a parent

OK, here it is the pet peeve of the day...

If any of you fathers out there ever refer to taking care of your children as "babysitting" be prepared for the unleashing of Mr. Mom! That's right! Gonna get medieval on your hiney!

Let me explain the difference between babysitting and being a parent.

1. You contributed to the creation of your own children whereas a child you are babysitting belongs to someone else.
2. Your wife does not consider it babysitting when she cares for the children so neither do you have that luxury of downgrading being a parent to mere babysitting.
3. Babysitting is usually coupled with payment in the form of cash or the offer to watch your children another time. Sorry to disappoint you dads out there who believe that you should be compensated for caring for your own children but you may just find yourself on the Dr. Phil show if you insist on compensation.
4. Finally, having provided care while my wife is at work, there are distinct bonding differences between babysitting and caring for your own child. For instance, I don’t believe I ever marveled at every new discovery that a child I was babysitting made nor do I ever remember picking up that child and hugging them close just because.

So fathers of the world beware! If you insist on calling caring for your children “babysitting” you better dang well be sitting on the baby or be prepared for my wrath! (Scared aren’t you?) I love the time I have with my son and I hope I have the opportunity to bond this closely with all of our children.

Randomness of the day

Why is it that helping my son discover new and exciting things like how to blow a proper raspberry, and the fine art of making noises by moving your lips with your fingers is sooo much more fulfilling than helping 50 of the finest rednecks in town find a part for their trucks? Hmmm that could be the greatest mystery of the western world. I love to watch him as he discovers new things that he can do with his body. His newest discovery is that dad's lap is the place to be when you want to look at a good book. He will grab his favorite book and try and crawl into my lap...ahhh does it really get any better than that?

Seven things to do before I die:

Go back and visit Brazil together with my wife

Graduate college! Woo hoo!

Get accompaniment written for my songs and hopefully get them recorded

Publish a book with my wife

Go to Italy (hey if my wife is going I'm dang well going with her!)

Loose enough weight that when I step on a scale it doesn't say "Come back when you are alone"

Make a positive impact on my children's lives

Seven things I cannot do:

Understand or watch Road Rules/Real World Challenge with my wife without poking fun at it

Walk and chew gum at the same time

Blow a bubble with bubblegum

Listen, with interest, to any story that begins with the following phrases: "One day when we was huntin'...", "My car/truck has...", "I watched the (football/basketball/baseball) game last night..."

A cartwheel

Talk as fast as my wife can

Remain silent when someone does or says something really dumb

Seven Things that Attract Me to My Spouse(not necessarily in this order!):

Her strength (she has an incredible, almost unshakeable fortitude)

Her laughter

Her smile

Her quirkiness (I tease her about it constantly but it really is an endearing quality)

Her quick-wittedness (she matches me comeback after comeback)

Her support (before we ever took the step of becoming an eternal companionship she was my best friend and my sole emotional support through many difficult times)

Her love (it is unconditional and complete)

Seven Things I Say Most Often:

Doh! (must use Homer Simpson voice)

Thank you for calling Checker Auto we beat the competitors price by five percent this is Mark I can help you (hate that one)

Son of a... that's gonna leave a mark

Tai Beaux stop it! (our dog)

I love you (both to my wife and my son)

Sweetheart/Sweetie (to my wife of course)

Nice!

Seven books I love:

Harry Potter 1

2

3

4

5

6

And I'm sure I will love seven when it comes out! lol

I also like the Chronicles of Narnia series and The Work and the Glory series

Seven movies I could watch over and over again:

Tommy Boy

Star Wars (just to irritate my wife)

Oscar

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation (I know, I know I'm a little twisted)

The Mummy

Armegeddon

You've Got Mail

The list could go on and on

Seven people I want to join in:

John

Jacob

Jingleheimer

Scmidt

Mohonri Moriacomer

Jack Frost

The Easter Bunny

I don't know enough people who are intelligent enough to Blog isn't that sad?

Introducing...Mr. Mom

Allow me to set the stage for the rest of my Blog. At first glance I would appear to be your typical 6'8" 320 lbs male (as if that were in any way a measure of normalcy). Up until 5 months ago I held the not-so-prestigious job of Store Manager at Checker Auto. Nothing, however, could have prepared me for the career of a lifetime… (Dramatic music)… Stay-at-home-Dad. Managing a store with 9 employees is nothing compared to the awe-inspiring task of managing feeding time, changing diapers (and often entire outfits as detailed here ), figuring out what he wants to play with next and the all important nap schedule (a crucial item if you want to save what sanity you may have left). I am also going to school full time (which is the reason I play Mr. Mom) so trying to find time to do homework is always a challenge. All in all we can say that life in our house is never dull there is always something that needs to be written, changed, learned, put away, fixed, cleaned, folded, washed, or organized.